Some enchanted evening you're going to meet your soulmate, the perfect person who will meet all your needs and fulfill all your dreams. Right? Wrong!

This fantasy that songwriters and poets are so fond of perpetuating has its roots in memories of the womb, where we were so secure and "at one" with our mothers; it's no wonder we have hankered to return to that place all our lives. But, to put it quite brutally, it is a childish dream. And it's amazing we hang on to it so stubbornly in the face of reality.

Nobody, whether it's your current mate or some dreamed-of partner in the future, has any obligation to deliver your happiness on a platter--nor could they even if they wanted to. Real love comes not from trying to solve our neediness by depending on another, but by developing our own inner richness and maturity.

Then we have so much love to give that we naturally draw lovers towards us.

There is an enormous wheel representing time, fate, karma. Galaxies spin around this constantly moving circle, and the twelve signs of the zodiac appear on its circumference. Just inside the circumference are the eight trigrams of the I Ching, and even closer to the center are the four directions, each illuminated by the energy of lightning. The spinning triangle is at this moment pointed upward, toward the divine, and the Chinese symbol of yin and yang, male and female, creative and receptive, lies at the center.
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t has often been said that the only unchanging thing in the world is change itself. Life is continuously changing, evolving, dying and being reborn. All opposites play a part in this vast circular pattern. If you cling to the edge of the wheel you can get dizzy! Move toward the center of the cyclone and relax, knowing that this too will pass.

Another one from me....


Silently she walks the path of a dark lonely night...
Shimmering in "his" aura and bringing in light...
Be it dawn or dusk she bestows her twilight...
An occassional star might accompany her..
and play with her lighter side...
But there would always be a darker side to her...
A side that only her beloved would know..
Her sun whose light makes her glow..
So day and day out she waits for him
For the moment when his hot rays will touch her being..
For then alone will the darker side of the moon come alive..
A moment of glory for which she strives...

I have to start trusting the universe....and jump like a bungee jumper without the cord! I have to exhibit the quality of absolute trust, with no reservations or secret safety nets.

There would be tremendous sense of exhilaration if only I can take the jump and move into the unknown, even if the idea scares me to death. It is a quantum leap for which I won't make any elaborate plans or preparations.

I'll would not settle my things or pack my suitcase and take it with me." No, I would just jump, with hardly a thought for what happens next.

So here comes HOLA>>>>>>