Somewhere in school I heard this quote: "Life is not a Tempest" nor is it a "Midsummer Dream". It is a "Comedy of Errors" so enjoy it "As you like it"....

The moment you start seeing life as non-serious play all the burden on your heart disappears. All the fear of death, of life, of love - everything disappears. One starts living with a very light weight or almost no weight. So with this weightless one can fly in the open sky.

You realise that something wonderful is just on the horizon, and you have just the right quality of playful innocence and clarity to welcome it with open arms...

Also when you can't change the situation you might as well sit and enjoy it....